| Location | Cardiff |
| Age | 33 years |
| Cause of Death | Murder |
| Date of Birth | 21/06/1962 |
| Date of Death | 24/04/1996 |
| Visitors | 7,359 since 05/09/2008 |
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*** PLEASE READ ***
A HUGE THANKYOU TO EVERYONE WHO CONTINUES TO LIGHT CANDLES ETC FOR MY PRECIOUS ANGELS. LOVE TO YOU
AND YOUR ANGELS ALWAYS XXX
♥ ♥ ♥ When i met Steven i was at the lowest point in my life, i'd just lost my wonderful mum
and contemplated joining her several times because i was by then relying on booze to get me through
each day without her. Steven supported me through thick and thin in the early days and between him
and my wonderful children i came out the other side smiling.Things were starting to look up for me
but sadly my dad died suddenly and once again Steven had to support me but he never complained once
and knew when i needed him to hold me in his loving arms. He was my rock!
We'd talked about getting married and on 19th August 1995 we celebrated our engagement with a garden
party, surrounded by the people we loved. We had our fights like all couples do but it wasn't long
before we'd made up and forgot about it. We were just a normal family until that fateful evening
when my world was ripped apart once more and all because some drugged up idiot took it upon himself
to smash my Steven over the head with a baseball bat. He fought for 11 days after the attack but
sadly due to the extensive swelling in his brain and the fact that his diabetes wasn't by then under
control, his organs began shutting down and he passed away.
Steven you'll ALWAYS be part of me and my children's lifes, your death will NEVER change the way we
all felt about you, our love for you will remain in our hearts forever.
Until we're reunited my darling, you rest your perfect angel wings in heaven above and when it's my
time to leave this world, i'll meet you at those pearly gates, never to be parted again.
Goodnight sleep tight my precious.
Love from Jan, Wayne, Louise, Sarah and Craig xxxxxx ♥ ♥ ♥
Steven was a wonderful man, always willing to help and offer advice if needed.
He was my mum's (Jan Lush) knight in shining armour and came too her at a bad time in her life -
just after my nan (Cynthia Alderman) had passed over.
I was just eleven at this stage but Steven never failed to make me laugh. I even called him Dad as
he was there for me when my own father wasn't.
He was taken suddenly from us on April 24th - after being hit over the head with a baseball bat -
his brain swelled and he lost his life.
The scum that did it got just 2 1/2 yrs ... hardly enough for taking someones life!!! you get longer
for robbery!
I miss Steven and think of him each and everyday.
Miss you always and forever "dad"
Gone but never forgotten xxx
Those we love don't go away,
They walk beside us every day,
Unseen, unheard, but always near,
Still loved, still missed and very dear.
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Tributes For Week Starting 16th November
FOR MONDAY
Sadly missed along life's way,
Quietly remembered every day,
No longer in our life to share,
But in our hearts you’re always there.
FOR TUESDAY
I sit and wonder every day,
Why the Lord chose to call you away,
I think He saw you needed rest,
He only takes the very best.
FOR WEDNESDAY
Everyday in some small way,
Memories of you come our way,
Though absent, you are always near,
Still missed, loved, always dear.
FOR THURSDAY
Resting where no shadows fall,
In peaceful sleep he awaits us all;
God will link the broken chain,
When one by one we meet again.
FOR FRIDAY
Surrounded by friends
Yet all alone
The one I loved
God has called home
The hugs of friends
Helps ease the pain
And I know my loss
Is my loved one's gain
But tears now flow
Across my face
As I long for just
One more embrace
Then comfort comes
And I see Christ's face
He hugs my loved one
And I feel God's grace.
FOR SATURDAY
Please don't sing sad songs for me,
Forget your grief and fears,
For I am in a perfect place
Away from pain and tears...
It's far away from hunger
And hurt and want and pride,
I have a place in Heaven
With the Master at my side.
My life on earth was very good,
As earthly life can go,
But Paradise is so much more
Than anyone can know..
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My heart is filled with happiness
And sweet rejoicing, too.
To walk with God is perfect peace,
A joy forever new.
FOR SUNDAY
When I come to the end of the day
And the sun has set for me,
I want no rites in a gloom-filled room
Why cry for a soul set free?
Miss me a little, but not too long
And not with your head bowed low.
Remember the love we once shared,
Miss me but let me go.
For this is a journey we all must take
And each must go alone.
It's all a part of the maker's plan,
A step on the road to home.
When you are lonely and sick at heart,
Go to the friends we know,
And bury your sorrows in doing good deeds -
Miss me, but let me go.
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Thoughts Today, Memories Forever
Angela Christopher’s Very Proud Mum
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You may not be able to see me,
Though you think that I am gone.
Inside your heart you carry me,
So I live on, I live on.
I know you feel an emptiness,
Of words we left unsaid.
Release your pain, forgive yourself,
For I already did.
The love you gave, I took with me,
And left my love for you.
So now I know some time has passed,
Here is what I ask of you.
Share my life and remember me,
To those you love – out loud.
And I will become part of them,
For that would make me proud.
Those little quirks, the quips I said,
Please share those memories.
For there is no plaque or stone,
That would better honor me.
I loved you then, and love you still,
And will forevermore.
So take my love and pass it down,
That’s what my legacy is for.
Give my memories, my love as gifts,
And do not mourn that I have gone.
Just place my love in your Heart always
And you will know that I live on.
ALL MY LOVE GLORIA ANTHONY'S MOM XOXO
SORRY FOR THE LACK OF CANDLES. JUST IN A DAZE STILL.
ALL MY LOVE ANGEL XOXO
A poem I wrote in 2000 with you in mind Dad
Why did you have to leave?
Why did you have to go?
We miss you all each and every day,
and we still love you so.
Nan, on July 1st (95), you grew your wings,
after many years of pain.
When the angels took you from us,
We knew life would never be the same.
Then Gramps you followed on in february,
Nans death had broken your heart,
you had to be with your wife again,
Couldn't stand to be apart.
In April then we greived again,
after the tragic loss of our step-dad,
Many times we spent with you Steven,
Were the best we ever had.
October came with more sad news,
Our Uncle Mark had died.
Knowing that you had also left,
tore us up inside.
We lost you all so close together,
words will never explain how we felt,
Too lose four very special people,
But thats the hand fate dealt.
We hope your now all feeling better,
And no longer in any pain,
But rest assured our darling Angels,
We will all meet again.
R.I.P
We Love You
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copyright Louise Brown/2000
♦♥♦ Cherished Memories ♦♥♦
Sometimes it's hard to understand
To see the reason why,
Sometimes it's hard to find the words
To say that last goodbye.
Sometimes it's hard to look ahead
With eyes still filled with tears,
But all our cherished memories
Will live on through the years.
And though there are no answers
The questions still remain,
Sometimes we just can't comprehend
Or understand the pain.
Sometimes it's hard to look beyond
The rainclouds in the sky,
Though all our cherished memories
Will stay as time goes by.
Sometimes when we close our eyes
The only thing we see,
Are moments that are long gone by
Of how things used to be.
Sometimes we need to just let go,
Let tears fall as they may,
Reliving cherished memories
That never fade away.
(Author unknown)
♥ With love ♥
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JAN, THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR ALL THE CANDLE, TRIBUTE, PICTURES AND GIFT YOU LEFT ANTHONY ON HIS FIRST ANGEL DAY. I WAS NOT ABLE TO GET ON UNTIL LATE OUR TIME, WHICH WAS THE NEXT DAY THERE AND I WAS SO OVERWELM BY ALL THE LOVE SENT TO US. IT MADE A SAD DAY A LITTLE EASIER. IT MADE ME SMILE WHEN I CAME ON THAT I HAVE SUCH WONDERFUL FRIENDS. THANK YOU FOR THE BOTTOM OF MY HEART. I DONT KNOW WERE I WOULD BE WITHOUT YOUR SUPPORT THIS LAST YEAR. THANK YOU FOR ALL YOUR LOVE AND SUPPORT FOR ME AND MY ANGELS. GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR ANGELS THANK YOU FOR KEEPING ANTHONY IN THE LIGHT WHILE I WAS AWAY. ALL MY LOVE GLORIA ANTHONY'S MOM XOXO
Come, dry your tears, smile again, love,
I’m only a whisper away,
Near in the dusk of the evening,
Just out of sight through the day.
Watching you waking and sleeping,
Hearing each prayer that you pray,
Sending my love to surround you,
I’m only a whisper away.
Come, dry your tears, smile again, love,
Remember the good times
we’ve known,
Cherish the joy we discovered -
Love that was planted and grown.
Your road may seem lonely ahead,
And distant horizons look grey,
You won’t be walking alone, dear,
I’m only a whisper away.
My Dear Family
It's me again from Heaven
With a message from above
Feel my spirit all around you
As I sprinkle you with love...
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I have watched you, as your tears flow
I have heard your silent screams
I know you sleep with visions
Of me visiting your dreams...
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I have come and sat beside you
Placed my hands upon your face
Wiped away the many teardrops
I so wish I could erase...
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I have watched you every day now
Seen such pain within your eyes
I just wish that there were some way
I could help you realise...
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I am happy up in Heaven
In this peaceful loving place
Where I will be here waiting
To welcome you with my embrace...
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You will join me here in Heaven
When your time comes you’ll see
Leave your Earthly cares behind you
Travel on to where you’re free...
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I have heard you ask to go now
But there is more for you to do
I promise I'll be waiting
When your time on earth is through ...
Author Unknown
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REST IN PEACE ANGEL
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♥ A Letter From Heaven ♥
I am writing this from heaven,
where I dwell with God above,
where there’s no more tears or sadness,
there is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy
because I’m out of sight,
remember that I’m with you,
every morning, noon and night.
And I will be beside you,
every day, and week, and year,
and when you’re sad I’m standing there
to wipe away the tear.
But one thing is for certain,
though my life on earth’s no more,
I am closer to you now
than I ever was before.
And when its time for you to go,
from that body to be free,
remember that you’re not going away,
you’re coming home to me.
And I will always love you,
from this happy land above,
I’ll soon be in touch again
with you; PS God sends his love.
© 1998 Ruth Ann Mahaffey
♥♥ WITH LOVE ♥♥
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~~ The Angels ~~
May angels rest beside your door
May you hear their voices sing
May you feel their loving care for you
May you hear their peace bells ring
May angels always care for you
And not let you trip and fall
May they bear you up on angels wings
May they keep you standing tall
May they whisper wisdom in your ear
May they touch you when you need
May they remove you from each trace of fear
May they keep you from feeling greed
May they fill you with their presence
May they show you love untold
May they always stand beside you
And make you ever bold
May they teach you what you want to know
About life here and here-after
May they fill you always with their love
And give you the gift of laughter
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~~ Angel In My Pocket ~~
I am a tiny angel
I'm smaller than your thumb
I live in peoples pockets
That's where I have my fun
I don't suppose you've seen me
I'm too tiny to detect
Though i'm with you all the time
I doubt we've ever met
Before I was an angel...
I was a fairy in a flower
God himself hand picked me
And gave me angel power
Now god has many angels
That he trains in angel pools
We become his eyes and ears and hands
We become his special tools
And because god is so busy
With way too much to do
He said that my assignment
Is to keep close watch on you
When he tucked me in your pocket
He blessed you with angel care
Then told me to never leave you
And I vowed always to be there
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~~ Guardian Angels ~~
When angels sense you need them
and angels always do.....
they come unseen from everywhere
to help and comfort you
they hover close beside you
till all your cares are gone
till they can see you're ready
once again to carry on
Then some of them may fly away
and take their gentle touch
to other hearts that need
the love of angels very much
but one at least stays with you
as your constant friend and guide
for guardian angels never leave
they're always at your side
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Lots Of Love Always ~~ Elaine...x♥x
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Tributes For This Week 5th October
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FOR MONDAY
Your life was a blessing
your memory a treasure...
You are loved beyond words
and missed beyond measure...
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FOR TUESDAY
You are not forgotten loved one
Nor will you ever be.
As long as life and memory last
We will remember thee.
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FOR WEDNESDAY
We miss you now, our hearts are sore,
As time goes by we miss you more,
Your loving smile, your gentle face,
No one can fill your vacant place.
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FOR THURSDAY
Your touch, your smile,
Was always so tender,
Today, tomorrow,
We will always remember.
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FOR FRIDAY
COMFORT
Surrounded by friends
Yet all alone
The one I loved
God has called home
The hugs of friends
Helps ease the pain
And I know my loss
Is my loved one's gain
But tears now flow
Across my face
As I long for just
One more embrace
Then comfort comes
And I see Christ's face
He hugs my loved one
And I feel God's grace.
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FOR SATURDAY
If Tears Could Build A Stairway
If tears could build a stairway
And memories were a lane
We would walk right up to Heaven
And bring you back again
No farewell words were spoken
No time to say goodbye
You were gone before we knew it
And only God knows why
Our hearts still ache in sadness
And secret tears still flow
What it meant to lose you
No on will ever know
But know we know you want us
To mourn for you no more
To remember all the happy times
Life still has much in store
Since you’ll never be forgotten
We pledge to you today
A hallowed place within our hearts
Is where you’ll always stay
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FOR SUNDAY
FAREWELL
The sand of time are running low
And soon my children I must go
My heart with love for you is filled
But soon its beating must be stilled
I leave no treasures of any kind
Only my love I leave behind
Take it and share it between sister and brother
And always be kind to one another
Weep not beside the grave for me
Don't bring me flowers I cannot see
Only ashes lie neath the cold sod
Just pray that my soul has gone with God
Some of you perhaps may weep
When my eyes are closed in eternal sleep
But try to remember it won't be forever
For God can bring our spirits together
I pray that I go to a world far above
To be with the others that I love
And to wait awhile on that Heavenly plain
Until the day we shall meet again.
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Thoughts Today, Memories Forever
Angela Christopher’s Very Proud Mum
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![](http://www.gonetoosoon.org/file/gift__91x91/1ef328a39935dce6cf46ab1360f0f629/sfathers-day---i-love-dad-t-shirt.jpg "I love and miss you every single day "dad" ~ You were the best father I ever had. You may not have created me but you were there for me when i needed you most (you know what I'm referring to - lol)
Thank you for every precious minute ~ I just wish you were still here.
Love always xxxx")
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